I will keep you posted!

Thanks Vashti and Clynn... you're input has helped. I actually had one of my guy friends tell me the same thing about not knowing how to help. So now that I have had that confirmed a couple of times maybe I can more easily forgive him for not being there for me. It just seemed so weird to me though because complete strangers offered me help cleaning what I had left, a place to stay, or a hundred other things, but all he offered was a bed to sleep in for the weekend - and he wasn't even going to be in town that weekend!

Vashti - I am 22 and he just turned 28 if that helps. So you were pretty close on the age! If we do get together again I really hope this past year apart has put things into perspective for him!