*update*
So my father got out of prison on saturday, we met up yesterday and 10 years ago i had no idea, now i do. My father is an alcholic & serious drug abuser. He loves me but only in a way a father so screwed up can love me which is nothing that i care to have in my life or in the life of my son. It is what it is. He is a big jit. At least he was honest and did not try to cover up like he did for all those years. I must admit that i am a bit dissapointed. People dont change.

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It takes a minute to have a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, a day to love someone - but it takes a lifetime to forget someone"

People change and forget to tell each other.