<Quote: "Well we don't live that far away we can see each other via a bus ride!!

Im getting the feeling she doesn't like me anymore but if thats the case why doesnt she just say ">


This sounds very familiar. I'm having a similar problem at the moment with a girl I went out with a couple of times recently. We were texting quite a lot, talkin on MSN etc, then the txts became gradually less frequent. I would have to txt her first to get a reply, and even then she would only send one txt message back. And now she rarely replies at all!

It feels to me like they are trying to shut you out...

But yeah, why don't they just say?! She's probably:

A) Scared of hurting your feelings (maybe she just likes you as a friend)
B) Doesn't like to be the one to break off the relationship
C) Still likes you, but likes to take things easy

In my case A would probably be correct, but that's taking into account other factors I know about.

Pepsi55, my advice would definately be to try and arrange to meet up! I've made the mistake of too much txting and MSN chat which is too IMPERSONAL. Just phone her up or whatever and arrange to meet. It's the only way forward if you really want to figure out what's going on, if things can go forward and so on.

Sorry, but I'm no great at this kinda advice, I'm a total newby to this relationship lark.

Anyhoo, let us know how you get on...