See well here's the thing, I'm trying to get a gadge of how early is approriate to ask.

See I figure after three dates is ok, if you talk about it, your past (ie: test's) and use protection.

But I was seeing someone when I moved back home for a bit (I've since returned to where I went to school)...but all we ever did was make out, and outside the pants play.

It felt like a throwback to grade 10...and I was made to feel like moving beyond that was totally in appropriate. I mean I get that she didn't want to go there...but as a general rule!?