I broke it off last night. We actually got closer than we've been Sat but I was still feeling leary and brought it up again. He said he wished I hadn't taken his comment "I don't know how I'm going to feel about our relationship after I'm divorced. I can't give you any guranteees" in the negative light I did (yet he even told me his sisters and female friends said they would have felt the way I did :rolleyes: ) We were in bed talking. I said I didn't think I could see him anymore. I also told him I didn't get why he was opposed to stopping dating each other until after his divorce and he said "I'm afraid the momentum will die." "That's comforting" I said. "Don't you sort of believe if things are meant to be they just will?" "Yeah", he said "but how can this keep growing if we don't see each other anymore??" He also kept saying he undertsood I was ending it because he's not divorced yet. I finally said: "How many times do I have to say it??? It's not because you're not divorced! It's because of the comment you made!" He said "So you're going to end this because of one comment?" "Yes." I said "So that's it? We're not going to even talk anymore?" he said.

He seemed really mad and collected all his stuff and then came over to me in the bed. He was shaking and crying and said "I am going to love you for a long time and I already miss you. Call me when you're ready to talk" (and I think as he was walking out the door he said "talk to you later this week")

He left some books that I think were in pretty clear view and his toothbrush.