no way...if i were you, i wouldnt give that guy a second chance...come on...did he say that he's sorry for not turning up? did he give u an explanation? if he didnt, heck he isnt worth it ! he only asked u to come to his place, so thats weird....why did he ask u to come to his place, but he didnt show up when u asked him to go out for a drink OUTSIDE the house? *question question*...so yeah... u have the right to refuse, and thats for a good reason!