Yeah, if she says she's not ready for a relationship.....more then likely she isn't. Its probably because she has a lot going on right now.....or because she simply sees you as a friend...(or big brother).

Yeah, In my opinion, guys who drink wayyy too much are a turnoff. So maybe try to get that drinking problem under control.....and work out those issues of lonliness.

We all get lonely from time to time....but thats no excuse to drink etc.

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