It sounds like you dumped your boyfriend in hopes of catching this guy, and your plan backfired. Leave the new guy alone - he is not available, and trust me: he is not as "perfect" as you think he is. I kind of doubt his girlfriend would appreciate that he hasn't given you the brush-off by now in light of your inappropriate discussions about your dreaming of sex with him, and let's face it, that is how you would want YOUR boyfriend to handle that scenario, isn't it?

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