Me and this girl really like eachother. A lot. We've never been this close to anyone before...either of us. But she just got out of a 2 year relationship and doesn't want to be in another one. But I do. Since there is no commitment, she can potentially date other people, and she might just because she feels so good not being tied down to anyone. My feelings are if she cares about me a lot, she wouldn't WANT to date other people. She hasn't yet, but it is an option for her, as it is an option for me to date around, but I don't have any desire to, this is the girl I want to be with.

should I wait until she's ready? I'm thinking of telling her to make a choice between me and freedom to date whoever she wants...I just can't imagine anyone else being inside her or even kissing her. Or should I date around as well to make her jealous and want me for real? Because I know women, she'll come right to me if I do this. I'm not that kind of person at all though.

Here's the basics, we lived together for about 6 months when she was together with my roomate but they broke up and now she really likes me and i really like her. We do the most fun, random, spontaneous shit together. I don't want her to date around. Is this a phase for her? Will she pass this and realize how much she has with me? Because I am a great guy, she knows this, but I want her to realize that if she wants to date other guys, I will not be with her...the thing is there's no commitment between us so i'm going in circles now, you see my problem here?

-T