Broken,

u're sooooo not alone....i was EXACTLY in the same situation as u. i actually went into this forum a while ago, and made a post under heading "how to forget"...u might wanna have a look at it...i got lots of good response from people here (thanks guys)...

i really understand how u feel, and all i can tell u is that mine is alot worst situation (mine is 10 yrs of not being able to forget!!!) but then...one day i came to realise that i was destroying myself. i was extremely exhausted, because i cried every night, and felt so miserable. (just like ur case, he told me that i was still his best friend, yet he never actually talk to me as much, when he found out what i really feel abt him). anyway....

so here's my suggestion for u (proven to work in my case):

1) pray. (really..it does help)
2) surround urself with lots of good, and POSITIVE friends
3) keep urself really busy with things that u like
4) look after urself well by watching what u eat, exercise, and glam up! make urself feel (and look) better.
5) cut out any contact with him, until u r trully over him. even if it takes months, so be it! dont chat, talk or meet him.

finally:
6) learn to accept the fact that he's gone. don't hold hopes, and keep positive thoughts. dont look back, and asking "what if".

good luck....

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