Vashti,
He is always cleaning up my brothers mess i mean everytime and so the other day i guess he just got so agravated, it all escalated becasue i did not want him to be agravated and sundays are our day so i did not want the mess to get to him but he proceeded and then i told him that i would just go to the store casue i really did not want to be around him at the moment. I know ouch! then he argued with me about never speaking up, which i do just maybe not as much as he would like. That really offended me that he would point that out and thats when things got ugly and then he said im leaving you, he was not at my steps he was gone!!!! i felt really hurt and the same thing came to my mind that you stated if this is the way its going to be then im better off!!! He said he would never do it again and i believe him. I cant take that kind of instability at all and if he would not have been there last night and let it go further i would have said screw him.. i would have been sad but im just not with that anymore. I really do like him alot and care about him and we were able to sit and communicate 98% of the time. He rarely does anything wrong at all. The whole him leaving me thing twisted me last nite and made me think y so quick to go? I'm thinking that maybe a question i need to ask today. Maybe his ex wife tolerated it but for me there wont be a next time.

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