*nods*

I find it hard to imagine ever threatening my boyfriend with anything like that. If I said "do this or i'm leaving", well, he'd open the door. But if I said "I know you don't want to do this but it really means a lot to me.. please?" then he'd probably do it, provided I am prepared to return the favour.

By giving in to her threats, you've showed her that threatening you is the way to get what she wants. You poor guy.. all stressed out with commitment expectations and such. Stand up for yourself, and if she doesn't like it, it's her loss.

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