you know speaking of leaving someone is serious and then actually taking the action is really soemthing serious, If she wants to go then let her go if she means what she says then why want someone who dosent want you? As painful as it all is and for as much as you are holding on and have tried at this point nothing you do is going to change her mind shes been gone for a long time all ready. Sometimes people think the grass is greener on the other side. I mean i feel that these are marital issues that can be worked out and she just throws that all away, throws you away.