Originally Posted by Gigabitch
I think it's happened enough times in a row that it isn't just a coincidence, though. It seems like she's avoiding you, and you have to figure out why before it poisons your relationship.
When can you call her and have a serious conversation, without her kids right there, and ask her what's the deal?
I agree, once, maybe twice I could understand but three times in a row is not mere coincidence.
It's almost impossible to have a serious conversation with her as she's either at the office or at home with the kids. That's why this weekend was so important I felt. We finally had a chance to sit down alone, quitely.
Could be she's scared and needs some time to digest all that has happened over the months. Or maybe she's just had a change of heart????
Probably the best thing to do is just give her space right now and see what happens. Smothering or pressuring her to find out what's wrong is just going to backfire.