Oh my gosh! U totally just summed up what I feel I should do. He is only 16, he has 2 of the best yrs in high school ahead of him... It wouldn't be fair for me to hold on & try to keep him from happiness. I also debated over whether or not to try to visit him when I'm home or keep in touch. I felt it would be best to just end it completely like you suggested. And also like you said, who knows, in 4 years maybe we will be together again! I believe what is meant to be will be! I just didn't know what to do about the present situation. But I guess I will just see him once more to tell him good bye, & let us both move on. As painful as that sounds!