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Old 25-05-06, 08:59 AM
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Update
We finally had a chance to talk on the phone a bit uninterupted tonight.

All is good. Here are some of her quotes:

'I want the same thing you do, to take this as far as it goes.'

'We're on the same wave-length'

'If we're going 100 mph hour or two mph that's fine, let's let nature take it's course and not hit either the gas pedal or the brakes in this relationship.'

'I feel the same way about you that you do me, we're together.'

'If I didn't have this thing to do this weekend I would be at your place in a heartbeat. I'll be there next weekend.'

She also explained the lack of communication this week. The bosse's wife has been sitting right under her all day in the office. I suggested that if she had mentioned that, I wouldn't have been concerned.

I also suggested that perhaps we do need to stop and verbalize things more often to avoid these misunderstandings. Although we have a wonderful non-spoken communication. (One day at McDonalds drive-through a few weeks ago, she took my hand and kissed it, then stared me in the eyes for a minute. I said 'Yeah. Me too.' She smiled.) I think we're at the point where we do need to talk a bit more though.

I ended the conversation with '(her name) we can work everything out.' Her answer was 'of course we can.'

All looks good. Keep your fingers crossed. I have renewed faith.
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