Originally Posted by Kay-C
Thx for the advice...i really appreciate it a lot! Fate or no?? I am always stuck in the middle of these two words. Perhaps my time has not arrived yet, some might say there will be a day...but sometimes i am thinking that, WHAT IF i really can't find the person i love for the rest of my life? Fear always spread whenever i think of this question.
I have never dated before, is there something wrong with me? Is not that i like to avoid making friends or girls. Some friends who don't know me well always think that i am bluffing when i say i've never dated before at my age. Because from my looks and attitude, i don't look like a person who is still single.
Let me just first say this... THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU!!
Ok, I feel better!
I agree that you do need to practice some patience. And for the love of God, stop blaming yourself! Just b/c you are not having these same experiences, that you find to be the norm, doesn't mean that YOU have any problem at all.
And it's quite common for young people to think about their future & worry. In your case, you are worrying about finding someone to spend your life with. Just stop worrying & start living! If you put yourself out there (& by that I don't mean in a desperate way!), you will find someone to begin a relationship with. You are only 21! That is by no means old! You have PLENTY of time to settle down.
If you are looking for a serious relationship right now (which also seems to be the case!), then just make yourself avaliable (again, in a non-desperate kind of way!), & meet people. I advise you to get out there & date!