Originally Posted by bluestrattos
Could it be possible is trying to forget you in the worst kind of way? Avoiding all the way? After all, he never talk with you all day, and the only contact he makes it's after hours, where the odds of you both have a small talk is very small.
I wondered this b/c when we first started dating (& me leaving was not just a couple of weeks away), he acted differently. Chad wanted him to come to his apartment one night b/c he has a place of his own & he was bored that night. So he called Hunter wanting them to hang out. Chad got pretty upset when Hunter told him that he was going to spend the night with me. (The thing is Chad has liked me all along, but I wen't for Hunter when I met him. I just never was fully attracted to Chad. So I think he is jealous somewhat of Hunter's relationship with me... you just have to know the story! I've gotten phone calls from Chad wanting to know why I didn't like him & I liked Hunter so much.)
Originally Posted by bluestrattos
Text him or try to talk to him, saying if it's this way he wants to end everything between you both.
I don't know what his reasoning is for this change in behavior... & I am afraid he will feel like I am trying to take him away from his time with friends, & that I am just being bossy. I stand by what I said about just telling him that Monday's not a good idea, & that I will see him (once more) before I leave.