Thanks for the advice Ellynn she not a bad girl but i just told her this so she doesn't feel so bad.. i said to her that i was hurting as well which i was..and i said mayby in the future but not now.......and i decided i m going to study uni in another city...it at least 12 hour drive by car and 45 min by plane..so yeh...any more comments yo guys wantto give me?