Originally Posted by Shibby
First of all guys won't show their feelings very fast in a relationship. So maybe he doesn't cry, but maybe his heart bleeds to see u cry ...
I think it's very clear to him that u cry because u have to leave him ... Since u only cry when you have to say goodbye.
Has he ever asked you why u crying ? and what did u tell him ? and how did he respond to that?
Well I also cry sometimes when I am alone--it's like something catches up to me. I don't know why I am crying though, other than I sense a pain that is somehow related to my bf.
He asked me once why I cried; I told him I didn't know, and that I was sad to have to say goodbye. He tried to cheer me up with, "We will see each other next week though."
I have noticed that I am just bad with goodbyes in general; I take them way too seriously. When I see a movie where there is a goodbye, such as someone dying, or a parting of friends, or like in Lord of the Rings when Frodo said a permanent goodbye to Sam and his friends, it really gets to me. Goodbyes hurt the worst.
I'm so emotional about this stuff but no one would know because I hide it and only cry in private (except in front of my bf, and I dont want to do that).