Yeah, maybe she realizes she misses you when your not there...as a friend that is....or possibly more.

I think your doing the best thing you can do right now....being her friend.and acting a bit more distant. If you cling to her, shes never gonna make any efforts on her part. If you become more distant, then what do u know? Shes called u to talk etc....


Keep doing what you are doing....and also ask her what her deal is with her bf? Another good way to get across your feelings is to tell her that her bf is a lucky guy....and then walk away.. I think by that she will understand how your feeling and hopefully make up her mind once and for all what SHE wants. I just don't think its fair of her to string you along in the process...

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