Originally Posted by Monkey_Buz
It seems like hes taking his "hobby" a bit to far and i can understand what your saying. You want to give him time and space to play with his cars (not toy cars?) to keep him happy but you want to spend time with him, obviously.
You just have to keep trying. If you love him and want to stay with him you will keep trying and keep trying to get him to spend time with you. He should see how much you care and any decent bloke will notice it and change their ways.
And not all men are bad....Well I'd like to think i wasn't.
Don't give up on the one you love.
I do want to make him happy...and yeah I'm there when he's working on his car or his friends cars and whatnot because he wants me to be a part of his life...but it's like 'um hi I don't want to do this everyday, why can't we do something else' so it gets frustrating. And sometimes he'll realize it and change for a day and then go back to it...I know he doesn't want to make me unhappy because he loves me, but it just gets so frustrating. Sometimes I want to give up, but I know I never will because I love him too much and I'm willing to be patient, but in the meantime it's driving me insane.
Actions speak louder than words.
I tell him that all the time and then he'll start being nice and put me first for a while and then he just gets on this "car kick" and I just wanna scream
