First off, it sounds to me like you have plenty of time before you should even think about marrying him. I mean alot can change in a matter of a yr....let alone 4 yrs...
I mean, when I was 18....I had all these plans.....and trust me, things have changed alot since then and Im almost 25 now.
I know because you are in a serious relationship your thinking about forever....which is cool. I know almost every relationship I have been in....I've tried to picture things working out for the best and how it would be in the future... But, you have alot of time yet!
This guy sounds like hes crazy about cars... (i know the type....Ive dated a guy like that and my dad was the SAME way!) And well, a guy nowdays who isn't into computer games or video games is a rare find... But, these are his hobbies and its what he loves... I doubt he will change... You have to realize that! If anything hopefully it will all eventually balance out and he will realize to take the time out for you.......or.....more then likely......this is just how its gonna be...
You have to decide if its something you can deal with for the rest of your life. If you think it gets easier after marriage..guess again.. Its even more compromising.....or more of one person accepting and the other person doing what they want. Basically......theres gotta be a balance....and if this is something you can't see dealing with in the long run, then you have to address it. If he doesn't learn to compromise for you when it comes to that....then guess whos gonna be stuck doing the compromsing.. Uh huh....thats right.....YOU! So really make sure your ok with all this before you go and marry the guy...
But, you still have alot of time... Like I said before..alot can change between now and then.... Good luck to you though...
