Hey, what's up! Ok I know what's up here - ahah, I'm a guy myself and the same age as you too, this is my first post here.

I can actually relate to this man. We seem to have a similar kind of thing. I havn't got into a girl for ages, although I meet many and in that sense all is cool but sometimes it gets boring just doing random chicks! - Last time I was with a girl, one who I enjoyed and everything seemed really cool (until I messed it up) that was like 2 years ago and our relationship last for just under a year - Even to this day when I see or go with a girl, I get bored after like...4/5 days because then I keep thinking of the girl I really like who is...in the past I guess.

I don't know it is weird - sometimes I think maybe it was that girl that I was - (Anna) and I think maybe she was the right one for me but I ****ed it up...so I can't give you advice but what about trying to see what the girl you were with 3 years ago - just see what she's doing now or whatever? Or is that totally out of the question?