Me again---is it possible that she is very puzzled about life.
I forgot to mention that my wife suffers from depression and is on medication for the condition.
Today I had to drop something off at her place and she was a in a very bizzare state---almost a dissociative condition. I asked her if she was ok---she said she had a very hard day.
I told her if she needs help just to give me a call---I really don't want her to do something stupid or become a wreck.
I've worked myself pass the point that I know we are not going to be together.