Cheers for your responses she is here back in the flat again and we keep slipping up almost back into relationship and then saying sorry its wierd man, I'm going to try to take the mortgage over as i went with her to get it transfered to her man and she didn't earn enough.

She has told me every night that she is out, i cooked her a meal. She is now out and she even said bye.

My family would be mad if they knew that i still want her in my heart of hearts. I'm going to sleep on the sofa and she's going to get the bed tonight

She said that she feels i haven't treated her right in a while, this is why its turned out like this, and i'm finding that all I want to do is be nice, because i know in my heart its true that I didn't pay her enough attention take her out etc and want to make it up, I feel confused about the whole thing really i guess