You guys seem to think uve got it all figured out! lol.

Not every girl is looking for the same thing... I can promise you that. I'm not attacted to big muscles or a thick wallet-- Im not denying that some girl are... but for most girls-- personality is key. You can be dating the hottest guy you've ever seen but if the chemistry isn't there then its not going to work. On the same token, you can take a guy who is decent looking with a great personality and have an awesome relationship. Ones personality often makes them more attractive.

In response to SteveM's first post-- Sorry to hear that she was making out with your friend! You shouldn't take it personally. Also, if your looking for a girlfriend-- you aren't going to find it in a club. As for this particular girl, next time u run into her just get her number and just casually tell her that u guys should chill sometime.

As for your friend, sometimes saying less is more. He can stand there and not say much and have girls attracted to him. He probably gets the girls because he makes them intrigued-- maybe he doesnt give them the attention and that drives em crazy. In addition, if you are going to clubs, im not going to lie, girls are looking for the good looking guys-- those girls arent there looking for boyfriend material... they're there to be flirtatious and maybe hookup...

good luck.

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