i can totally relate to how ur feeling.... my ex only started smoking ona regular basis after we started dating... he was goin through some rough stuff and picked up the habit. i felt the exact same way-- betrayed. there were times when i just wanted to cry. I have nooooo idea why. nothing about it really bothered me but i just felt... i dont even know what i felt. then again, i felt the same way when he would smoke weed. That really doesnt bother me either (when my friends or family do it) -- these things would just kill me when he did it....

to this day, i still dont understand it...

good luck

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