Thanks for giving a girls point of view.

I know a clubs not exactly the ideal place, it was just a night out with the lads, few drinks, have a laugh, you know...!

If you *did* meet someone in a club you'd be suspect of it being anything longterm, you'd kind of take it on its merits wouldn't you? Or at least that'd be my take.

In the case of my original post, I didn't "meet" her in a club, I already know her pretty well and it seemed to be going somewhere. Anyway, I hate getting hung up on one incident it's just how it always seems to end up, best you'll get is being friends, oh well...

As for your question, you have to take each guy on his merits, some guys and girls want relationships, some don't.
I mean, I don't necessarily want to have a relationship with "any old girl" I can get in a club or something like that but when you meet someone you like then you start to think about more than just 1 night clubbing with the person don't ya? Guys and girls must be the same on that one??