Funny you should mention that, because it seems that if I ever meet a guy with his shit together, I get intimidated. I think he's just gonna move on to something better when it comes along. If, I can't help him in some way, I feel useless in the relationship or that I lack control or leverage to keep him coming back for more. I guess that happens because most of the guys I dated DID NOT have their shit together. So therefore I was the one giving them rides places or helping them find a job etc. I felt useful. Some I actually helped big time, and it made me feel good to help them. Even though I hated the results long run (them mooching off of me) I still felt I had some control. Control over them needing me.


Thats one of the main reasons I don't date right now. *Sighs*, this sucks.

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