Yeah. Now the more I think about it, the worse of an idea I think it was. But oh well, you live you learn... that's part of life.

Quick story:

Back before we turned 18, she told me she wanted to see a porno, just to see one. She said when we turn 18 we're going to go rent one to see what it's like, but never did. This store has more movies than I imagined. So maybe if she's getting in the mood she'll be interested in fulfilling a past goal that has never been accomplished, by getting a porno and seeing what it's like.

Ladies - Say you were in this position. You said a few times over the years you wanted to check out an adult store + see an adult movie, but never did. Then your boyfriend persuades you to go to one. First of all, would you be hesitant to go? Or would you be up for the new experience and go to check it out? Then while you're there, he suggests you pick out a little toy and a movie while you walk past the selection on the shelf. What would you think? Do you think you'd be up for the new experience? I have a feeling she'll be hesitant because, whenever we've done something new sexually from the very first time her and I kissed, she's been hesitant until she's gotten more comfortable with it. I think what I'll have to do is, if she feels uncomfortable, I'll just have to reassure her that it's just her and I and nobody else. I think she often just feels like everybody is watching her. Then if she at least tries these new experiences, but doesn't like them, then we'll just throw everything out and keep moving forward in our relationship just like we were.

I hate to sound like I'm planning this stuff out, but I'm just trying to refrain THAT much from offending her or sounding like my dick is leading the way... just looking for some more insight.