SteveM hang in there man, you're just not meeting the right kind of girls if you ask me! I'm totally out there to meet a guy with a great personality. If someones not drop dead gorgeous and I like them a lot I eventually think they're the greatest looking guy out there because of their great personality. maybe instead of just getting super friendly with them you should just ask them out right away and let them know what you're intentions are with them. You really can't wait too long. Plus if she says no she can't play the "friend" card with you if you dont know eachother that well. I've never played the friend card but I think the best relationship you can have is with a friend.

Here's some advice for you with the ladies though. Be mysterious! Girls just cant' help liking the quiet mysterious guy. Its like since hes quiet and dark I MUST know more about him. I know I can't help myself if I meet someone whos different from everybody else. It's like they're an untouchable that you just have to touch.

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