Originally Posted by Jeblina
....and I just keep thinking about how nice it will be to have a "real" family situation.
If he's doing all the right things with regards to staying clean, I have nothing to bitch about...and certainly don't want to end the relationship IF he's clean and just being a young, stupid guy. But drugs are a major no no...a deal breaker....and he knows this. I just feel like I need to know before I make any final decisions.
May I respectfully request that you re-read your posts today? I think that you do have something to bitch about. If you remove all references to drug use, you still have a perfectly valid complaint.
Bottom line: Don't let an unemployed man move into your house. You don't have to end the relationship- just don't take it to the next level until he's ready, and I don't mean he thinks he's ready, I mean he shows you he's ready. By getting a job. And learning how to use a GD phone.