Originally Posted by Gigabitch
May I respectfully request that you re-read your posts today? I think that you do have something to bitch about. If you remove all references to drug use, you still have a perfectly valid complaint.
Bottom line: Don't let an unemployed man move into your house. You don't have to end the relationship- just don't take it to the next level until he's ready, and I don't mean he thinks he's ready, I mean he shows you he's ready. By getting a job. And learning how to use a GD phone.
Okay...yes, you're right. Thank you...I needed the validation that I wasn't overreacting here.
He definitely needs to SHOW me something...he can say things all day long, but they don't mean anything unless there are actions to back it up. He has gotten another job (one that he had before actually), and they will pay for him to go to school....but I still need a little more to feel good about things....right now, I think I'm feeling like more of a convenience....like he's just saying and doing what he HAS to do to keep me happy until we move into the house....that scares me to death.
