i went thru the same thing with my ex and it was horrid he was addicted to oc's and the lying never stopped. he was wealthy and i had everything except a freakin normal guy so i left...... 2 months later he was in a bad car accident and i broke all contact until last august we got back together his life was together everything was gravy until i started to notice the signs just like you have and this time i did not hesitate to go runnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn this was recently in febuary and now hes locked up for violating his probation. I hate to sound hard but my mom always says that people dont change even under extreme circumstances and if they do its rare. I should have listened to her but i chose to find out on my own. take care

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