I don't think there is anything wrong with you because you are attracted to a 14 year old. They are often physically mature, and emotionally, they often mature faster than males. However, as Ellynn pointed out, that does not make pursuing any sort of relationship with her "right" (and yes, I realize you aren't; I am simply confirming what you already know).

You are doing the right thing by avoiding her. Keep it up, at least until she is 18. I would hate to see you compromise your integrity in a moment of weakness.

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