Originally Posted by ConfusedDude1
Dont worry. I have not, and will not, pursued any type of relationship with her. And I am thinking that I will continue to just stay away from her. But I just dont understand how/why I could feel this way? Its not right. It sucks and it bugs the hell out of me. I just dont get it!
Why do you feel this way? Good question. It could be because of how close you are to the family and seeing her alot etc. But, I believe its impossible to control who you have feelings for. I have found myself having feelings for people who I KNOW it wouldn't work out with or people I know it were wrong to have feelings for, but simply couldn't help it. Did I pursue it? No. I knew it was best not to.
But, it seems like you are doing the right thing by distancing yourself, even as much as it hurts. Very decent of you to actually think before you act. More people should do the same.