Yes, it wasn't the brightest idea to give her a ring when she was dating someone else.

Ok, so you gave her that ring a month ago right? You said clearly when you proposed to her that she should "take two weeks to decide yes/no." Now, shes avoiding you and a month has passed.

You do realize that more then likely shes dating other guys right? Or at least that other guy.

I'm sorry, but as a female, I would never accept a ring until I was sure and actually said YES to a proposal.

I would get that ring back, ASAP. Its not fair to you that you put your life on hold to wait for her to "decide". I think she's had plenty of time. I don't think that would be considered pressure at all. I just don't think she is ready for marriage with you or anyone else. I also don't think she sees you as someone she wants to marry and doesn't know how to tell you no. She sees you as a friend and honestly I doubt that will ever change.

I think for your sake, you should get the ring back and move on with your life. Let her go, don't contact her etc.

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