Originally Posted by vashti
I think you ought to set up two or three evenings a week when you DO see her, and limit those outings to 3 hours each. If she doesn't like it, break up with her and let her be a cling-on with someone else.
You need to learn to draw some boundaries, my friend.
Yeah... again, this seems like good ole puppy love to me; BOTH of you (this IS a relationship) need to be your own people in order to make that work, and it DOES sound like she is a bit clingy (which can be flattering and affectionate at first) but ultimately eventually, niether of you will have anything to do/talk about because you are joined at the hip... and, yes, she is a 15 year old girl who will most likely need to learn from life quite a bit more, so just be honest; put it all on the table and if you guys still want to be friends or if you can set up some shorter more separated meeting times, then go for it. But yeah, right now its less of a symbiotic relationship than an "i-like-this-guy-so-i'm-gonna-suffocate-him" type of deal...