Here's the deal guys... I think (now don't throw your tomatoes) that I have come to understand women, well at least more than the average schmoe... recent relationships and just watching and learning have let me in on some little insights into the complex infrastructure known as the female mind... indluge me if you will

First off, I suppose it is fair to let the ladies know that you drive us crazy. You really do; exactly what the thread says, changing your mind every 10 minutes and what not.

Now, fellas... we being logical, rational beings (not that you gals are not, just men are more programmed towards that kind of junk) we feel that something is wrong with the situation that is preventing the woman from making a decision, right? Because that's how it would be for us... find the problem and fix it. Weeeeeeelllllll... if you dont know this by now, women are NOT simple like we are The big secret is... (drumroll please) that women don't let us know what they want because they honestly dont know themselves! And if they THINK they do, they will change their mind the next day... Womens' minds are very emotionally-geared, and will easily act on whims of fancy and passion, often losing sight of any greater purpose (and dont be offended ladies, we LOVE this But... just dont take it personally guys when she seems to smother you for weeks then suddenly is busy doing laundry every night, or if she is dropping some definite signals then ignores you completely... she is not trying to drive you crazy, she is just figuring out what is going on for herself!

So, ladies, please just tell us what is going on! We are more clueless than you sometimes... any suggestions would help