I always thought of it as the other way round... that if I told a guy I loved him, he'd run a mile!! Is this not the case??
I personally can't stand it when people (guys or girls) play games. The way I see it, if you like someone, tell them and go for it. None of this teasing business. I think girls can and do get confused and change their minds about what they want... but can't guys do this also?