Originally Posted by vashti
I am a logical, rational woman, and speaking for at least SOME women, the reason they are into you one minute and repulsed by you the next usually has something to do with something idiotic a man says.
Can you believe that I was able to figure that out all by myself?
Ok, sometimes we DO ruin things with our idiot mouths......
But you have to admit, sometimes you gals drag us around for a while and then disappear; whether this is being hard to get or just second guessing yourself, it is EXTREMELY annoying to us... We men on the other hand, are a bit more systematic about it; we like you, we let you know we like you (eventually), we hang around you a lot, and see where things go from there. Women tend to do the rollercoaster; i.e. I like this guy, so I will smother him with my presence and emails and phone calls about nothing until 3 am for 2 weeks, then have no contact whatsoever for a while, then give a casual nod when I see him like nothing happened hehe... which we as men do not understand because it is not how we work...