yes...i think so...i know all i have to give him is time and space. but this is the problem: i feel like just a hello for him is seen so negatively. for some reason it's just too much for him. maybe he feels like i'm trying to woo him or pressuring him to answer me or something...whatever man...i can feel that he HATES my presence. how long should i possibly wait for him to go back like he was before? and in the mean while, what should i do? should i leave him alone? his mum's sickness is something that just doesnt heal in a short time...i even wonder now that maybe he uses this reason to "refuse" me, maybe this is his way of telling me that he doesnt want me. i'm so confused rite now. what would u do if u are in my position?