Well, I think in my case it's secretly something else. I believe she does love me, however I found out (very late in the relationship) that she's a born-again virgin and wasn't planning on having sex until marriage or at least until she was with the guy she KNEW she wanted to marry. However I've been really frustrated with that cause I never wanted to wait until marriage, but rather wait until I was in a serious loving relationship. So I think (secretly) that she's using "not in love" as an excuse to see if she's willing to have sex with me or not before marriage or even knowing that she'll marry me. So I think THAT'S the demon she's battling while on the break. Seeing if she loves me ENOUGH to go the extra mile or not.

Alexi