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Old 31-07-06, 02:05 PM
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Does my best friend love me? If so, can I ignore it?
My most platonic guy friend of 4 years and I recently hooked up when we were drunk. It was nice at the time, but I don't want anything from him like that. I am happy being his friend. But I suspect he may feel differently.

I told him about this other guy I've been interested in, and how I thought this guy would probably go for me since this guy is cute, but not TOO cute for me. (hehe kind of a dumb thing to say)

He said to me "Do you really think there is a guy out there who wouldn't want to be with you?" Of course I know there are plenty that wouldn't want to be with me, but I think from his POV he couldn't imagine it?? Or maybe he was just being supportive and nice?

Other little things have changed, like when he is drunk he gets really touchy with me, and he's been asking me to do things with him alone more - go to games together, movies etc.

I dunno, is the When Harry Met Sally thing true - that guys and girls cannot be friends because sex/relationship will get in the way? If so, would it be totally insensitive of me to completely ignore it and hope he gets over it or should I confront him and let him know how I feel?
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