To answer your title question; No and Yes. Simple as that.

Fact: You made out with this guy.

Stop. Do not pass go. Do not collect 200 dollars. I don't care how hammered you were, you "hooked up" and had intimate physical contact. Friendship= game over. Sorry. YOU screwed this one up, hun. Guys cannot just be friends with attractive girls. Period... especially someone who has made out with them. Solution? Don't get drunk! Duh... don't be around this guy with your brain off. He is lovey-dovey becuase he cannot think, but you still remeber it and think about it later... which brings the old awkwardness into things as you're sober... basically there is no way you can be good, close friends (honest friends) with this guy; YOU messed that one up by mackin it with his drunk ass. I have lots of female "acquaintences" that are very attractive, and I know I could not get too close to them withhout developing some sort of feelings towards them. Now, I have lots of good freinds that are female, who aren't un-attractive, just not my type and maybe there's something about them that really turns me away... basically men cannot overlook that capacity in females and just be friends, unless we are gay, and sounds like this guy is not. I know, I know, it's all soap opera romantic "ooh, my best friend loves me and I never knew, how soap opera romantic..." bah. You played some tongue hockey, and by not telling him whats going on, you are just lifting him higher and higher before you drop him on his face. Don't do that, it really sucks for us. Take some time off and find a relationship with someone you don't know so well. This thing with the buddy will not work out, I can tell you from being a guy. Sorry.