Yeah, everyone who says that you are waaay better than this guy is completely right. Never settle, which is what you are doing... There are men out there who want to treat you like a princess, go find them! They are probably in med school So yeah, I would have a long talk and just tell him how you see it; use the facts; just the one about him going to the movies with ANOTHER GIRL would be enough for me to want to kick his ass... He is absolutely not pulling his line in this relationship, and you really deserve better.

Now, about the hard to speak your mind bit you mentioned... I am exactly like that, when I am silent I am usually pissed All I can ask of you is to really just slowly work on letting little things out once in a while; your quietness will make life very very difficult for you later on! In new relationships, start having "talk" times or just come out with what you think, no matter how insignificant you think it is. Start getting into the habbit of expressing your feelings, becuase you will onyl hurt yourself later on in life. Trust me