Originally Posted by Gigabitch
Maybe women should all be forced to wear color-coded clothing to indicate to men their availibility from two blocks away. Then, if you were wearing the "taken" color (red, of course) every male person would have to stay 50 feet away from you at all times and could be jailed for making eye contact.
Ok, veeeery funny everyone...
Well, in MY book, it is NOT ok to hit on someone who is dating someone else... I never meant to imply terms of "property", that is just sadistic...
Being in a relationship comes with a certain amount of commitment, and that varies with the level of the relaitonship. If two people are dating, they are commited to only be seeing eachother, and flirting or anything else is a breach of that commitment. Ok, there are no written rules, but I know that I would be crushed if someone I was dating even held hands with a guy or made little flirty gestures, not because I'm possesive (I'm actually not) but that it would hurt me to know that she may be incubating feelings for someone else, which I do not think is ok. Am I the only one out there who wants someone who wants me back? What is the point of dating and being in relationships if there is no commitment and you are free to flirt and build standing with anyone whom you like? I, for one, would expect that someone in a relationship with me is only interested in me and would not even think about doing anything with another guy. Maybe thats just me...