Originally Posted by Gigabitch
Nebula, your jealousy is going to eat you from the inside out. Whatever happens with this guy, you'll have the problem.
Either you can trust him or you can't. It's not really something you can control. You CAN control how miserable he makes you every few weeks. Are you clear about the fact that you want him, but you don't need him? Do you know that you're in this relationship by choice and you could walk away whenever you want?
Yes, well put.
To me, this sounds innocent enough (maybe not the staring, gawking bit, but hey... some people are just like that I guess...)
He very well may be a bit "loose" in terms of this, and YOU should bring this up to let him know it upset you and that you want to make things clear that you are his only girl... I mean, he could have said "later" when you were going to leave, but sounds like he was just being friendly (a little too much, maybe) But I completely agree with giggly wiggly in that it is YOU that controls how you feel and deal with the situation; I would honestly tell him how it made you feel and ask if he would have felt differently had YOU done that to some hot guy. If he's just that type, then sounds like he's not for you.