Why is his divorce taking so long? Mine was done in six weeks, and we had a house and a child.

If I were you, I wouldn't put my body armor on, but I'd have it at the ready. Things could get pretty ugly. To me it sounds like he's already livin' it up beyond what you're comfortable with.

I can't remember- are you guys living together or what? if you are, you definitely need a Plan B.